## A Message for Other Parents

In their grief, the Thompsons hope their story will serve as a cautionary tale—not one of blame, but of awareness.

“We don’t blame Ava or her family. This was an accident,” Rachel said. “But we urge every parent to talk with their kids. Make sure they carry their inhalers. Educate friends’ parents about allergies or medical needs.”

They’ve also begun working with a local nonprofit to raise awareness about childhood asthma and the importance of preparedness in homes hosting sleepovers.

“Ask the questions,” Michael said. “Even if it feels uncomfortable. It could save a life.”

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## What We Can Learn

Lily’s story is one no parent wants to hear—but it’s one every parent needs to.

It is a painful reminder of how fragile life is, and how quickly it can change. It’s also a testament to the power of love, community, and resilience in the face of unspeakable loss.

In honor of Lily, here are five important things all families should consider when sending children to a sleepover:

### 1. **Medical Information Sheet**

Make a small card with your child’s medical needs, allergies, and emergency contacts.

### 2. **Medication Kit**

Ensure your child packs inhalers, EpiPens, or any required medications, and that the host knows how to use them.

### 3. **Open Dialogue**

Talk to the host parents about conditions like asthma or food allergies. Share symptoms to watch for.

### 4. **Scent-Free Policy**

Be cautious with candles, incense, or strong sprays if a guest has sensitivities.

### 5. **Check-In Policy**

A quick evening check-in text or call can help ensure your child is okay.

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## Remembering Lily

Though her life was short, Lily touched many hearts. At her memorial service, more than 200 people gathered—classmates, teachers, friends, and neighbors—all wearing lavender ribbons (her favorite color). Her best friend Ava spoke through tears:

“She was the best person I ever knew. I miss her every single day.”

The Thompsons continue to honor their daughter’s legacy through art scholarships, awareness campaigns, and storytelling.

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## In Closing

To say this family was devastated is an understatement. To say they are brave is not enough.

Their willingness to share Lily’s story—raw, painful, and real—may save another life.

And for every child heading out for a sleepover, for every parent who feels hesitant to ask “too many questions,” remember this story. Ask anyway. Pack the inhaler. Speak up. Be the awkward parent.

Because sometimes, it’s not just about letting go—it’s about making sure we never have to.

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If you or someone you know is grieving the loss of a child, support is available. Please consider contacting organizations such as:

* **The Compassionate Friends** ([https://www.compassionatefriends.org/](https://www.compassionatefriends.org/))
* **Bereaved Parents USA** ([https://www.bereavedparentsusa.org/](https://www.bereavedparentsusa.org/))
* **National Alliance for Children’s Grief** ([https://nacg.org/](https://nacg.org/))

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